What Is Love?

What do you mean by love? Ask this to yourself, does true love even exist or we are just driven by those physical attractions? Attractions are nothing less than attachments. When you get attached to a person, you are just sharing those needs for each other rather than sharing a heart. People get confused with attachments and love. Attachments is something based on your expectations. When you give a materialistic thing to other person, the person gets attached to you. But when a situation arises where you cannot fulfill someone’s wants then that same person becomes negative to you. Attachments are those treatment similar to tit for tat but love does not get attached with these negative thoughts. True love starts from internal attraction which we forget to see and fall for those external attractions. You cannot force someone to love you. You cannot read someone’s heart but you have to feel it. So what do you mean by true love? Love is not an expectation but a free flow of positive emotions to that person. Love does not come up from materialistic things you give to someone. Love does not support anger, hatred or any other negative emotions about the other person. Love is a feeling that takes time to understand each other and requires growth. There is nothing called as love at first sight. If this would happen then everyone would make that love forever. Love is an expression of thoughts to each other and acceptance of it throughout the life. Love is a type of respect, trust and understandings which are created by itself. Love is a pure relationship created by feelings and not by any type of attractions. Love accepts honesty rather than doubting and checking on that person. Love itself means being free. Love comes from within and it’s forever when it is true.