Relationship is not just a word but it takes you closer to unknown people. Everyone has different values, feelings and emotions which makes us different from other person. Thought process of a person is never same but changes from person to person. What you think about someone defines your views about them. So the common question arises why do our relationships become so much toxic to us. But this is a question which can only be answered by you. Just think about why do we create relationships. The most common answers that are generated by reports is ‘needs‘. We create these relationships to satisfy our needs. These needs are created in the form of expectations. Take and example of a beggar, why do they beg? It’s simple, So that to satisfy their hunger and to fulfill their stomach. We all see beggar as a person who needs money. So money becomes a form of expectation to that beggar. Similarly relationships are created to fulfill our expectations. That expectation can be physical, emotional or mental. The dependence of expectation on one another can irritate the mind, when the expectations are not met. People start setting up their standards on the basis of what they think. The wanting of humans are unlimited, they do not stop at any particular point of life. Toxic people are created because of lack of understandings. Once a person is emotionally or physically satisfied it ends up for the day but when the next day arises the cycle goes on repeating. We see that expectations forms a backbone of any relationships. But the real truth is hidden somewhere else. The most successful relationships are created in which expectations are nil. There is no form of any force to fulfill the desires and pleasures of one another. The bond is created by itself and lasts longer than any other bonds. So the idea of people are toxic is not about of their behavior but because of your expectations about them. When you will stop expecting anything from someone then you will truly live a happy life.
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