Tag: bond

Getting over a breakup

by Motivational Vibes, posted in Uncategorized

It’s ok to go through those emotions in early stages of life because, We need to know what truly life will be if we want to live with someone forever.When you go through those heartaches, illness, depressions, Your heart becomes stronger when you meet the right person. You get aware of emotional feelings of people and when we experience this our mind gets awaken while selecting the right partner of life. This is necessary because it can happen the person you would engage without knowing might have flaws which can ruin your whole life. And the struggles are unbearable when someone is closed to you and can do anything because the time is changing and minds too. You shouldn’t force your happiness to come to you. Let it flow automatically. Love is a feeling that takes time to understand each other and requires growth. There is nothing called as love at first sight. If this would happen then everyone would make that love life forever. Don’t block yourself and others love itself means being free.

People get confuse with attachments and love. Attachments is something based on your expectations. When someone gives you something which is required for you, You get attached to them. When the flow of showering of love stops the other one might get sad and tend to make negative emotions towards you. This is an attachment where you are loving someone on the basis of your need. Love should be free from any emotions and it is not based on expectations. It never comes on the basis of materialistic things you give to someone. Love comes from within and its forever when its true.

Stop Comparing, Start Enriching Your Relationship

by Motivational Vibes, posted in Uncategorized

Sometimes we take our relationships too seriously that we cross beyond limits. Relationships should not be judged as a status of domination or forceful connections. No human in this world wants to be forced to do things that is beyond their thinking. Relationship work only when there is peace and respect between people. A relationship can be with anyone that can be your friends, teachers, parents etc. The idea of comparing your relationship with others is degrading your connections.

When we watch social media influencers, motivators and other celebrities with a good relationship status, we start comparing with them. It is an identity they have created for themselves. What you see is just an external thought of your vision. Relationships go through struggles, setbacks and too many negative thoughts that we don’t see. At the first glance of any relationship, it goes smoothly but as the time passes we start knowing them, their flaws, poor mentality and other negative thoughts which are created by our mind. But let me tell you that no relationship is perfect.

If you leave someone and get connected to other, their flaws will never leave you. Enriching not only means accepting but also putting your little efforts and work to grow the bond. If you truly love someone then there needs to be proper understanding and peace. Relationship grow only when you both never fail to accept the flaws and develop your internal connections stonger. Remember

How To Handle A Toxic Relationship

by Motivational Vibes, posted in relationships

Relationship is not just a word but it takes you closer to unknown people. Everyone has different values, feelings and emotions which makes us different from other person. Thought process of a person is never same but changes from person to person. What you think about someone defines your views about them. So the common question arises why do our relationships become so much toxic to us. But this is a question which can only be answered by you. Just think about why do we create relationships. The most common answers that are generated by reports is ‘needs‘. We create these relationships to satisfy our needs. These needs are created in the form of expectations. Take and example of a beggar, why do they beg? It’s simple, So that to satisfy their hunger and to fulfill their stomach. We all see beggar as a person who needs money. So money becomes a form of expectation to that beggar. Similarly relationships are created to fulfill our expectations. That expectation can be physical, emotional or mental. The dependence of expectation on one another can irritate the mind, when the expectations are not met. People start setting up their standards on the basis of what they think. The wanting of humans are unlimited, they do not stop at any particular point of life. Toxic people are created because of  lack of understandings. Once a person is emotionally or physically satisfied it ends up for the day but when the next day arises the cycle goes on repeating. We see that expectations forms a backbone of any relationships. But the real truth is hidden somewhere else. The most successful relationships are created in which expectations are nil. There is no form of any force to fulfill the desires and pleasures of one another. The bond is created by itself and lasts longer than any other bonds. So the idea of people are toxic is not about of their behavior but because of your expectations about them. When you will stop expecting anything from someone then you will truly live a happy life.